Friday, April 17, 2009

How to Hug a Porcupine

"Is it possible to hug a porcupine and not become a pin cushion?" How to Hug a Porcupine: Dealing With Toxic and Difficult to Love Personalities ©
By Dr. John Lewis Lund

I think I'm a porcupine! I often find myself wondering how my husband (and other family members) can love me, much less put up with me, when I'm so cranky and critical all the time. I have no clue why I get like this.
so Maybe do,
I think its because I get scared that i wont be able to handle the next problem that pops up...
that's my best guess..
I definitely have a love hate relationship with the whole grown up thing. Life was easer when all you had to worry about was what to where to school and how you were going to convince your parents to let you out of the house like "that"

1 comment:

  1. We love you because you're you! Growing up is so hard and having to be one is even harder! I think you should just relax and let things happen. You can't always plan things or have things happen the way you want. Just trust yourself.